For years, I have been crafting what I affectionately call “freedom rings” or “Phoenix rings” for my clients. These pieces are not just about creating something beautiful from the remnants of a past relationship; they embody resilience and personal growth. Whether a divorce is amicable or contentious, the process is invariably complex and emotional. The creation of a divorce ring—transforming a symbol of union into a symbol of independence—can be deeply cathartic and empowering.
The practicalities of creating a divorce ring often involve repurposing the gemstones from engagement rings. Typically, we remove the center stone and sell the metal, using the proceeds to create a new piece. This sustainable practice not only supports the circular economy but also helps purge any lingering negativity associated with the jewellery’s past. The concept of sustainability in jewellery making is gaining traction, as more people seek to minimize waste and give new life to old pieces.
Many clients are curious about the practical aspects of resizing rings to fit different fingers or incorporating original stones into completely new designs. One of our current projects involves transforming a simple claw-set princess cut diamond into an Art Deco-inspired divorce ring with a sapphire halo. This transformation not only gives the stone a fresh, new look but also visually separates it from its previous form, allowing the wearer to embrace a new chapter in life.
For those who find it painful to transform their engagement rings, we offer alternatives like turning the stone into a pendant or bracelet. These options allow individuals to keep the stone’s value without the constant reminder of its original context. Transforming a ring into a different piece of jewellery can be a powerful way to retain the sentimental value of the stone while giving it a new, positive association.
The creation of a divorce ring is not just about jewellery; it’s about personal healing and empowerment. A divorce ring symbolises a commitment to oneself, serving as a reminder on tough days that you are resilient and capable of creating beauty from pain. The journey of transforming an engagement ring into a divorce ring can be a therapeutic process, offering a sense of closure and a new beginning.
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